Mama, You were the bravest of them all; you had the purest of hearts, the kindest soul, and are the most gracious person we have ever known. You were very forgiving and mothered all with no favoritism. You welcomed all our friends with open arms. We can only hope to be half the woman you were. You gave love so easily and with no hesitation. You were so funny and exciting. We'd dance, make jokes, make faces, talk about boys, and everything else a best friend does. You were our best friend. You knew us better than we knew ourselves. You ALWAYS had the right words to say in every situation. You were our mentor, best friend, first love, and mother. When we were younger, we would all be your Valentine's dates, and you’d gift us very nice things. One day, you gave us small beautiful mirrors and told us that the person in the reflection was beautiful & worth it. You taught us to love ourselves. Mum, you prayed for us every day and called us every day. You were a woman after God’s own heart. God always answered your prayers, and we often joked that if you pray about someone, they should be scared because God listened to you. We have cried so much during this journey and asked God many questions, but no response. Why you? Why now? Why cancer? You are the true definition of a warrior. You fought to the last minute and never gave up at any point. You were stronger than all of us combined. Thank you, mama, for being always on our team. For keeping us on course, for showing us what unconditional love is. It’s an honor to be your children and keep the legacy going. We will never forget every moral, lesson, or value and what we stand for. We will always be a
reflection of who you were. This is goodbye, for now, mummy, until we meet again. With the deepest love,
Your children.
My light went out on November 13th when my beloved wife passed away at the Coptic Hospital Nairobi. It was a terrible shock because we all believed she was making favorable progress towards recovery. She was very happy during her last days. All my children and I visited her less than two hours before she died. She died as we held her, screaming. In October, she assured us that she would return to her business and become a motivational speaker.
God, in His infinite wisdom, had other plans. She was going to a heavenly home to be with her beloved mother, who died seven years ago. Our nearly forty years of marriage life was extremely happy. Our resources, at times, were limited. We had struggles, but these were overcome, and we found much happiness in anticipation of better things. We were blessed with four children, but our family has grown to 14. Esther was instrumental to our family's cohesiveness. After retirement, we had hoped to spend our life
together.
My dear wife was not only a wonderful wife and mother but a meticulous housekeeper and homemaker. She was a cheerful, friendly person and made many warm friends. She seldom, if ever, criticized any person. Instead, she preferred to refer to their good qualities. She was the soul of honesty. She would never shade the truth, no matter what the consequences. She loved her church, CITAM, and her church ministries. She was equally faithful to her
allotted tasks in those groups. She was a treasurer in the GEM ministry and a co-chair in the Married Couples Group (MCCG). A member of Esther group, Golden Edgers Ministry, and CITAM
Intercessory ministry. When she could not attend service, when her health worsened, she would always tune in to CITAM live service on YouTube.
Together, we had anticipated a busy year in 2024. Our wedding anniversary fell on November 11th, but she was too sick to receive my flowers. While in a comma, I talked to her, but she didn't reply. She died two days later. Everything has been changed.
And now, dear friends, I close this tribute with humility and submission to Divine authority. Esther was faithful, efficient, loyal, and true. She inspired me in ways I cannot explain. I have lost a worthy helpmate but have happy memories of our nearly forty years of life together. I sorrow now for my loved one, but the burden has been lessened by the many kindnesses shown to me and my family. I mention no names lest someone inadvertently be missed. Her funeral is simple and carried out with the dignity she admired. My desk in our house is covered with cards and letters extending love and sympathy. My phone is jammed with messages of condolences and sympathy, too. I want you all to know how grateful I am for everything you have done for me. The tribute you paid me and my family touched us deeply. I fear I cannot thank all of you personally, but be assured your kindness will never be forgotten.
Sioni haya kwa Bwana,
Kwake nitang’ara!
Mti wake sitakana,
Ni neno imara.
(Chorus)
Msalaba ndio asili ya mema,
Nikatua mzigo hapo;
Nina uzima, furaha daima,
Njoni kafurahini papo.
Kama kiti chake vivyo,
Ni yake ahadi;
Alivyowekewa navyo,
Kamwe, havirudi.
Bwana wangu, tena Mungu,
Ndilo lake jina!
Hataacha roho yangu,
Wala kunikana.
Atakiri langu jina,
Mbele za Babaye,
Anipe pahali tena,
Mbinguni nikae
Bwana u sehemu yangu,
Rafiki yangu, wewe,
Katika safari yangu,
Tatembea na wewe.
Pamoja na wewe,
Pamoja na wewe,
Katika safari yangu,
Tatembea na wewe.
Mali hapa sikutaka,
Ili niheshimiwe,
Na yanikute mashaka,
Sawasawa na wewe.
Pamoja na wewe,
Pamoja na wewe,
Heri nikute mashaka,
Sawasawa na wewe.
Niongoze safarini,
Mbele unichukue,
Mlangoni mwa mbinguni,
Niingie na wewe.
Pamoja na wewe,
Pamoja na wewe,
Mlangoni mwa mbinguni,
Niingie na wewe.
In Christ alone, my hope is found
He is my light, my strength, my song
This Cornerstone, this solid ground
Firm through the fiercest drought & storm
What heights of love, what depths of peace
When fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All
Here in the love of Christ I stand
In Christ alone, who took on flesh
Fullness of God in helpless babe
This gift of love and righteousness
Scorned by the ones He came to save
'Til on that cross as Jesus died
The wrath of God was satisfied
For every sin on Him was laid
Here in the death of Christ I live, I live
There in the ground His body lay
Light of the world by darkness slain
Then bursting forth in glorious Day
Up from the grave He rose again
And as He stands in victory
Sin's curse has lost its grip on me
For I am His and He is mine
Bought with the precious blood of Christ
No guilt in life, no fear in death
This is the power of Christ in me
From life's first cry to final breath
Jesus commands my destiny
No power of hell, no scheme of man
Can ever pluck me from His hand
Till He returns or calls me home
Here in the power of Christ I'll stand
What a Friend we have in Jesus,
all our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit,
O what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry
everything to God in prayer.
Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged;
take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful
who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
take it to the Lord in prayer.
Are we weak and heavy laden,
cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge,
take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do your friends despise, forsake you?
Take it to the Lord in prayer !
In His arms He'll take and shield you;
you will find a solace there.
Blessed Savior, Thou hast promised
Thou wilt all our burdens bear
May we ever, Lord, be bringing all
to Thee in earnest prayer.
Soon in glory bright unclouded there
will be no need for prayer
Rapture, praise and endless worship
will be our sweet portion there.
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EARLY LIFE
Esther Muthoni Nyaga was born to the late Julia Gacīa and the late Jackson Njeru in 1960 at Kiaritha village, Kamwimbi location in the then Meru district. She was the sixth born among seven siblings: Evangeline Igoki, Eston Kiringa, the late Grishon Muchiri, Victoria Wanjeru, Robert Muthee, and Naomi Warothe.
EDUCATIONAL JOURNEY
Esther started her education quite early. She attended Kiaritha Primary School from 1969 to 1975, where she got her Certificate of Primary Education (CPE). She was then admitted to Chuka Commercial Secondary School from 1976-1979, where she did her East African
Certificate of Education. She did her A levels (Kenya Advanced Certificate of Education) at Kangaru Secondary between 1980 and 1981. She joined the then Kenyatta University College in 1983 and graduated in 1986 with a Bachelors in Education.
PROFFESSIONAL ACHIEVEMENTS
Esther was employed immediately after completing her university education in 1986. Her first posting as a graduate teacher was at Michinda High School in Elburgon Nakuru county from 1986- 1987. She then moved on to Rungiri Secondary School in Kiambu, County where she taught business studies from 1987 to 1997, Dagoretti High School from 1998 to 2000, and lastly, Lenana School from 2000 to 2020, where she was Head of the Department of Business Studies, Christian Union Patron and in the Guidance and Counselling department. At Lenana School, she was very concerned with the needy boys and helped most of them get scholarships. She would also cater to the personal items of the needy and poor students, especially from the marginalized areas.
FAITH AND SERVICE
Esther’s parents were committed Christians who embraced Christianity during those early years. She was introduced to the church at an early age by her parents. She was a Sunday school teacher and a choir member. After joining primary and secondary education, she was equally committed to evangelism and spreading the gospel of Jesus Christ. When employed, she performed the duties of Christian Union chaplain at Dagoretti High School and Lenana School. She was baptized in a Christian Fellowship Church. She has been a member of the CITAM church since 2004, both at Karen and Kangundo road assemblies. At CITAM Karen (2004 to January 2021), she was in the Women’s Ministry and Counseling Ministry. At CITAM Kangundo, Road, she was a member of the Women Ministry, Intercessory Ministry, Golden Edgers Ministry, Christian Business Forum, Kamulu Safari Group, and Beautiful Hearts Married Couples Care Group, where she co-chaired with her husband.
FAMILY LIFE
Esther Muthoni met the love of her life in 1983. They courted and had a customary wedding in 1986. They solemnized their wedding in 1995. They were blessed with four children. One son and three daughters, namely Lawrence Murithi, Ann Wawira, Mercy Karimi, and Christine Kagendo. She was then blessed with one other daughter and three sons- Caroline Waithira, Patrick Nzaro, Joseph Ochieng’ and Gavriel Olufade. They had four grandchildren: Zuena Changa, Ayden Olufade, Finley Otieno, and Zuri Malika.
ILLNESS AND DEATH
Esther enjoyed good health for most of her life until February 2023, when she started experiencing some challenges. She was diagnosed with cancer in May of 2023, a battle which she fought bravely. Despite chemotherapy and undergoing radiotherapy, Esther went to be with the Lord in accordance with God’s divine plan on 13th November 2023. Her strength, unwavering faith, and resilience live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
Rest in eternal peace, mum; your grace and spirit will forever inspire us.